Comments for http://www.coach4lifechange.com Sat, 07 Jan 2012 17:12:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on New Beginnings by JanetEisenbise http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2012/01/new-beginnings-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1289 JanetEisenbise Sat, 07 Jan 2012 17:12:16 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=1268#comment-1289 Thanks for reading and for the comment Melanie. Your approach to setting goals and arranging accountability would get you into action mode, which is my biggest challenge. Sometimes those wake-up calls, such as the one from Jeannette, are really unsettling, but in a good way. I can relate to your discomfort in asking for the sale. Recently I've been thinking about that and the courage it takes to "weed out" those who want information, etc. without investing anything. In working as a therapist, I learned a long time ago that people who want things for free aren't really going to benefit from what I have to offer anyway. It's a great time to give up being the "People Pleaser." (Yikes!) :-) Thanks for reading and for the comment Melanie. Your approach to setting goals and arranging accountability would get you into action mode, which is my biggest challenge. Sometimes those wake-up calls, such as the one from Jeannette, are really unsettling, but in a good way.

I can relate to your discomfort in asking for the sale. Recently I’ve been thinking about that and the courage it takes to “weed out” those who want information, etc. without investing anything. In working as a therapist, I learned a long time ago that people who want things for free aren’t really going to benefit from what I have to offer anyway. It’s a great time to give up being the “People Pleaser.” (Yikes!) :-)

]]> Comment on New Beginnings by Melanie Kissell http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2012/01/new-beginnings-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1284 Melanie Kissell Tue, 03 Jan 2012 04:13:46 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=1268#comment-1284 " ... the home gym is serving as a clothing rack." I'd wager that's what most of them are used for, Janet. LOL! "I once thought my ideal job would be thinking up great ideas, (if only someone would pay me for that)." I want that job, too! Or more specifically, I want the job of coming up with blog post titles or what to Tweet on Twitter or what to post on Facebook or what to cook for dinner or ... :) Allow me to say Jeanette Cates is one smart cookie! I'm probably one of the guiltiest parties of all regarding staying stuck in the learning mode. Gosh, darn it -- I can't help it! I'm an avid reader and a big fat sponge when it comes to soaking up information. Every new piece of juicy information I discover is like finding buried treasure ... ... and it's also a gigantic TIME SUCKER! ;( I never make New Year's resolutions. I just don't want to get caught up in that trap of making promises to myself I suspect I most likely won't keep. Know what I mean? I do, however, set goals for myself and with the right kind of accountability in place, I accomplish the majority of them. Wish I could say I have a perfect track record, but I don't. This year, regarding my biz goals, I'm planning to get rid of the fear of asking for the sale. I can no longer stand in the shadows and be shy about it. Sure, some of my followers will say goodbye and some will get upset because I won't be offering everything for free anymore .. and that's okay. Working for free doesn't stock my refrigerator or pay my rent or keep the lights on around here! Love this topic -- very enjoyable and worthwhile reading! :) ” … the home gym is serving as a clothing rack.”
I’d wager that’s what most of them are used for, Janet. LOL!

“I once thought my ideal job would be thinking up great ideas, (if only someone would pay me for that).”
I want that job, too! Or more specifically, I want the job of coming up with blog post titles or what to Tweet on Twitter or what to post on Facebook or what to cook for dinner or … :)

Allow me to say Jeanette Cates is one smart cookie!

I’m probably one of the guiltiest parties of all regarding staying stuck in the learning mode. Gosh, darn it — I can’t help it! I’m an avid reader and a big fat sponge when it comes to soaking up information. Every new piece of juicy information I discover is like finding buried treasure …

… and it’s also a gigantic TIME SUCKER! ;(

I never make New Year’s resolutions. I just don’t want to get caught up in that trap of making promises to myself I suspect I most likely won’t keep. Know what I mean?

I do, however, set goals for myself and with the right kind of accountability in place, I accomplish the majority of them. Wish I could say I have a perfect track record, but I don’t.

This year, regarding my biz goals, I’m planning to get rid of the fear of asking for the sale. I can no longer stand in the shadows and be shy about it. Sure, some of my followers will say goodbye and some will get upset because I won’t be offering everything for free anymore .. and that’s okay. Working for free doesn’t stock my refrigerator or pay my rent or keep the lights on around here!

Love this topic — very enjoyable and worthwhile reading! :)

]]> Comment on In The News: A Riff on Penn State by Crystal http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2011/11/in-the-news-a-riff-on-penn-state/comment-page-1/#comment-1246 Crystal Tue, 29 Nov 2011 05:23:12 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=1250#comment-1246 I suggest adding a facebook like button for the blog! I suggest adding a facebook like button for the blog!

]]> Comment on Let It Go by My Blog » The Need to Clean http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2010/03/let-it-go/comment-page-1/#comment-1240 My Blog » The Need to Clean Sun, 20 Nov 2011 17:33:59 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=132#comment-1240 [...] She’s a therapist and life coach and much better at explaining these things, and you can read it here . I’m taking the advice to heart and am tackling one area at a time, since accomplishing anything [...] [...] She’s a therapist and life coach and much better at explaining these things, and you can read it here . I’m taking the advice to heart and am tackling one area at a time, since accomplishing anything [...]

]]> Comment on When Life Change is a Joy by My Blog » Welcome, New Mama http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2009/02/when-life-change-is-a-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-1239 My Blog » Welcome, New Mama Sun, 20 Nov 2011 17:32:21 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=52#comment-1239 [...] My mom blogged some very sweet things about Baby Bear's birth day. [...] [...] My mom blogged some very sweet things about Baby Bear's birth day. [...]

]]> Comment on Resources for Life Change by EFT http://www.coach4lifechange.com/resources-for-life-change/comment-page-1/#comment-1238 EFT Fri, 18 Nov 2011 18:30:16 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?page_id=1114#comment-1238 Dear Coach4lifechange, I was wondering on a similar note, No Profile Comment Cheerio Dear Coach4lifechange,
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]]> Comment on In The News: A Riff on Penn State by JanetEisenbise http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2011/11/in-the-news-a-riff-on-penn-state/comment-page-1/#comment-1236 JanetEisenbise Wed, 16 Nov 2011 16:54:01 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=1250#comment-1236 Thanks for reading and for your comment...and for passing it on. Thanks for reading and for your comment…and for passing it on.

]]> Comment on In The News: A Riff on Penn State by Amy O http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2011/11/in-the-news-a-riff-on-penn-state/comment-page-1/#comment-1235 Amy O Wed, 16 Nov 2011 15:25:48 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=1250#comment-1235 I got chills reading this. Your commentary is beautiful in its power and eloquence. I concur absolutely. We all have the power to change the world with small, yet powerful, increments. Well done! I got chills reading this. Your commentary is beautiful in its power and eloquence. I concur absolutely. We all have the power to change the world with small, yet powerful, increments. Well done!

]]> Comment on Failure, the Great Teacher by JanetEisenbise http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2011/09/failure-the-great-teacher/comment-page-1/#comment-1189 JanetEisenbise Tue, 27 Sep 2011 22:14:31 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=1215#comment-1189 Thanks for your comment and for reading. It does seem paradoxical that taking full responsibility could be liberating, but it's true. I think it also frees us up to consider options and to find more creative ways to make the changes we desire. Thanks for your comment and for reading. It does seem paradoxical that taking full responsibility could be liberating, but it’s true. I think it also frees us up to consider options and to find more creative ways to make the changes we desire.

]]> Comment on Failure, the Great Teacher by Amy http://www.coach4lifechange.com/2011/09/failure-the-great-teacher/comment-page-1/#comment-1188 Amy Tue, 27 Sep 2011 18:38:10 +0000 http://www.coach4lifechange.com/?p=1215#comment-1188 I love this! It's an amazing feeling when you accept responsibility for the situation. Even though there may be steps ahead to take to extricate yourself, the simple act of accepting your role is liberating. I love this! It’s an amazing feeling when you accept responsibility for the situation. Even though there may be steps ahead to take to extricate yourself, the simple act of accepting your role is liberating.

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