My morning routine usually begins with “Morning Edition” on National Public Radio. The other morning an interview caught my ear, in particular because it dealt with psychology and a training program for soldiers to deal with stress and prevent PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). The Army instituted the Comprehensive Soldier Fitness after they became concerned in 2006 about the increasing incidence of PTSD and suicide.
While the stories of returning soldiers have brought PTSD to the foreground in the public awareness, it is a psychological disorder that is common with trauma survivors whether they have been in combat, suffered from domestic abuse, sexual assault or even an automobile accident. The increasing incidence of it in returning vets and their stressed families have made finding effective treatments more urgent. Of course as Benjamin Franklin knew, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, so if we can be trained to build resilience, decrease stress and avoid PTSD, so much the better.
Why does this pertain to you and to all of us? Because we are all affected to some degree or other by stress in our lives. Whether we are subjected to some life changing event or an ongoing, unresolved conflict or pressure, stress is detrimental to health and happiness. We know that it lowers the functioning of the immune system and thus plays hob with every kind of chronic physical and psychological disorder.
Of course most of the causes of stress, and the prevention and treatment of it, occur between our ears. When we are pessimistic or negative in our thinking, we are highly vulnerable to it. Most of the time it isn’t the outer circumstances that are the culprit, but the way we think about it, or what we are telling ourselves about it. If you hear yourself on a rant to someone else, or in your own head, realize that you are “awfulizing” and causing yourself stress.
Of course if you are in combat or a car accident, that is no doubt a negative circumstance! So let’s get to the prevention part. A part of the Comprehensive Soldier Fitness program teaches soldiers to Hunt the Good Stuff. To quote Sergeant 1st Class Michael Ballard, one of the trainers in the program, “One of the things is what we call Hunt the Good Stuff. And it’s something that we can do every day and it helps to build our optimism. Research shows that if you’re an optimistic person you’re going to live longer, you’re going to be happier. I mean isn’t that what grandma always said? You know grandma used always said count your blessings and look at those things.”
Reminds me a lot of the gratitude list in which you can write down 10 things at the end (or beginning) of every day that you are grateful for. And while doing that to allow yourself to really FEEL grateful.
Another version of “Hunt the Good Stuff” is an assignment I like to give to folks who are struggling in relationships with spouses or children, which I call “Catch them doing something right.” The object is the same: notice the qualities or behaviors that you like in that person and express appreciation for it. It quickly begins to change your own attitude for the better, and soon you are reinforcing and increasing the positive behaviors in that other person that you want to see.
It is so easy to pick out what is wrong and to run with it! It’s a short trip from there to imagining the worst, getting into conversations with other people and playing a big old game of “Ain’t it Awful?” Even if you keep your pessimism to yourself, you are going to set off a severe round of “monkey mind” and scare yourself or put yourself in a deep funk. And of course the more we do that the more we can find that everything is just awful and stressful and difficult.
Looking for positive things in your life will help you recover more quickly when things do go wrong. Finding what you are grateful for builds optimism and strength. “What we are trying to do here is to allow soldiers to make sense of what is happening, focus on what they can control, and not catastrophize(ph) and go into a downward spiral,” said the program’s director, Brig. Gen. James Pasquarette.
What is important to remember is that optimism can be learned or practiced, and that in doing so, you will improve your health and happiness in every aspect of your life. You can build your resilience so that when bad things do happen, you will be better equipped to cope and to recover your balance and well-being.
If you would like to read or listen to the NPR interview, here is the link:
http://www.npr.org/2012/01/08/144862810/classes-teach-soldiers-to-be-army-strong
